When I first heard about Rubaroo, it was purely by chance. I was an NSS (National Service Scheme) volunteer, and camps were routine in our college. Someone mentioned a camp we were to attend, and I assumed it would be the usual—a service-oriented event with lectures, discussions, and possibly some community work. My initial thoughts? It might be boring. Little did I know that this seemingly routine camp would become a life-changing journey.
First Steps into Rubaroo: The ELP Experience
The camp turned out to be Rubaroo’s Experiential Learning Program (ELP), and it was nothing like what I had anticipated. From the very first session, it was clear that this wasn’t about one-sided lectures. It was immersive, practical, and personal. We were 25 strangers—some from different colleges, each carrying our own preconceived notions about the world. I’ll admit I was judgmental back then, forming opinions about people based on appearances or first impressions.
But the camp broke those barriers. Through open discussions, debates, and shared experiences, we started seeing each other in a new light. One of the most striking aspects was how Rubaroo created a safe space where everyone could express themselves without fear of judgment. For the first time, I found myself engaging with topics like gender, identity, and inclusion in ways I’d never considered before.
What stood out most was the practical approach. We weren’t just learning about gender discrimination; we were dissecting the layers within it—understanding the LGBTQ+ community, challenging stereotypes, and recognizing the biases we carry. Slowly, the invisible walls between us—boys, girls, and people of different sexualities—began to crumble. By the end of the camp, we weren’t strangers anymore; we were friends with shared experiences, memories, and a new perspective on the world.
Agaaz-e-Baatcheet: Breaking Barriers of Faith and Tradition
My next step with Rubaroo was Agaaz-e-Baatcheet, a program focused on interfaith dialogue. Initially, I thought it might overlap with ELP or be less engaging since it was shorter. But once again, Rubaroo surprised me.
Agaaz-e-Baatcheet opened a window into the world of religious diversity and traditions. Growing up, I had my assumptions about other religions—some built on stereotypes, others on fear. For example, I was hesitant to step into a mosque or a church, unsure of whether I’d be welcomed. But Rubaroo organized visits to various religious places, and what I found was overwhelming kindness and acceptance.
One memorable moment was walking into a mosque for the first time, guided by the locals who patiently explained their customs and beliefs without a hint of condescension. The same happened at a church, where we learned about rituals and traditions that echoed similarities with my own faith. It was a beautiful realization: beneath the surface, all religions share the essence of compassion and unity.
Youth Lab: Redefining Sisterhood and Aspirations
If I had to pick a favorite, it would be the Youth Lab. Designed exclusively for young women, it created an unparalleled sense of sisterhood. For three camps, we delved deep into conversations about womanhood, marginalization, and the struggles faced by adolescent girls, particularly in underprivileged communities.
One of the most transformative activities involved teaching young girls about career opportunities and scholarships. As someone who had limited knowledge about these growing up, I saw how empowering this information was for them. We also had to earn Rs. 2000 without using our personal funds—a daunting task that taught us resilience and resourcefulness.
The sense of accomplishment we felt was unmatched. But what moved me most were the students we worked with. Seeing their faces light up with hope and curiosity, hearing them speak about their dreams, and watching them stand up to their own challenges was deeply fulfilling.
A Personal Milestone: Impact Beyond the Program
One story stays with me vividly. A young girl from a government school in my colony faced significant resistance from her parents about continuing her education. After a session on career options, I took the students to an exhibition at T-Hub, showcasing diverse professions. Her mother initially confronted me, questioning why we were encouraging these “unrealistic dreams.”
But before I could respond, the girl spoke up. She explained passionately how education could transform not just her life but her family’s future. By the end, her mother’s skepticism turned to pride. She thanked me, saying she’d only pretended to resist to see her daughter’s conviction. That moment was a testament to how much we had achieved together.
The Rubaroo Effect: Growth and Gratitude
Rubaroo has been more than an organization to me—it’s been a catalyst for personal growth. It’s taught me empathy, the importance of consent, and the power of listening. Today, I’m more open-minded, confident, and compassionate. I no longer rush to judge; instead, I strive to understand.
Even in everyday conversations, Rubaroo’s teachings linger. My friends and I often joke about our obsession with consent, but beneath the humor lies a deep respect for its importance. Rubaroo has instilled values that have become second nature—kindness, inclusion, and the courage to challenge norms.
Looking Ahead: Suggestions for Rubaroo
If there’s one challenge Rubaroo faces, it’s the risk of being taken for granted because of its openness. While this inclusivity is its strength, it’s essential to set boundaries and ensure the organization’s values aren’t misused.
Beyond that, I’d love to see Rubaroo expand its reach, especially in rural areas where its programs could inspire countless young minds. More collaborations, more social action campaigns, and perhaps even digital initiatives could amplify its impact.
Looking back, what started as an ordinary camp has become a journey of extraordinary growth. Rubaroo has taught me that real change begins within, and from there, it radiates outward. For me, and for so many others, Rubaroo has been that spark.
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