In December 2023, Anita was deeply engrossed in her UPSC preparations, tackling the rigorous demands of academic life. Then, a simple message changed her course—a faculty member shared information about an opportunity with Rubaroo facilitated through the United Way of Hyderabad. “I was intrigued,” Anita recalls. “I’ve always loved interacting with people, so I thought, why not try?”
Within days of applying, Anita was invited to attend the foundation workshop in Bangalore. This marked a significant turning point in her life. “I was buried in academics, and suddenly, I was stepping out of my home—and even my state—for something entirely new,” she shares. The workshop brought together over 20 girls from diverse backgrounds, creating a space where stories unfolded without judgment. “It was a safe haven,” Anita says. “For the first time, I felt free to share my opinions without fear.”
The Youth Lab
Anita joined Rubaroo’s Youth Lab Programme, a three-month initiative focused on STEM education for students in government schools. “We worked with adolescent girls to map their career paths in science, technology, engineering, and mathematics,” Anita explains. While the programme spanned from January to March 2024, its impact extended far beyond. “It wasn’t just about teaching STEM; it was about connecting, listening, and growing.”
One of the pivotal moments for Anita came during an activity facilitated by Monisha in Bangalore. “We explored why women often need to seek permission for their choices—whether it’s career-related or personal,” Anita says. The exercise sparked a profound shift in her thinking. “Why should we validate our decisions through someone else’s approval, especially when men aren’t held to the same standards?” she questions.
This realization hit close to home. Anita began noticing gendered dynamics in her own family—how responsibilities were divided and how permissions were sought. “I started conversing with my mom about these patterns,” she shares. “It led to small changes, like involving my brother in household chores.”
Beyond Awareness: A Call to Action
The programme didn’t just broaden Anita’s perspectives; it inspired her to take action. “Before Rubaroo, I was consumed by academics. Now, I’m working on a mental health initiative,” she reveals. Drawing from personal experiences and stories she encountered, Anita aims to create a support system for individuals battling loneliness or depression. “We’re not just about offering technological solutions,” she says passionately. “We want to reconnect people with nature, take them to their favorite places, and build genuine human connections.”
She credits Rubaroo for instilling this sense of purpose. “The journey wasn’t easy—convincing my parents to let me participate was challenging. But once I joined, I knew there was no turning back. It gave me the confidence to take risks and dream bigger.”
The Broader Impact
Anita is unequivocal when asked if Rubaroo’s work has a broader societal impact. “Absolutely. If it changed me, it can change others,” she asserts. She’s already seen the ripple effect in her interactions, where she applies the lessons she’s learned to foster equality and empathy.
However, she does have one recommendation: extending the program’s duration. “Three months felt too short. Building meaningful connections and understanding students deeply takes time. A six-month or year-long program would make a greater impact,” she suggests.
A Message to Future Participants
Anita has a simple yet profound advice for anyone joining Rubaroo: “Don’t revert to the person you were before. Embrace the change, take risks, and continue growing. This journey is transformative—make the most of it.”
As she balances her MA in Political Science with her burgeoning mental health initiative, Anita reflects on her Rubaroo experience with gratitude. “It taught me that life is about more than just academics. It’s about giving back and creating something meaningful.” She smiles, adding, “If not for Rubaroo, I’d still be the same old me, stuck in my bubble. Now, I’m ready to make a difference.”
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